什么叫事實？

在客觀世界中，可以被證實或者證偽的東西。

什么叫觀點？

就是在一套認(rèn)知體系中，不違反事實，邏輯自洽，因此無法被證明對錯的東西。

意思我們都了解了之后，咱來舉例說明。

早上起床你媽告訴你，你再不起來就要遲到的。

這是觀點，媽媽認(rèn)為你要遲到了。

然而對于你來說，你速度快只需要20分鐘就能搞定一切，按時到學(xué)校。

事實上你就是按時到達了學(xué)校，時間9點。

這是事實，因為你9點到達了學(xué)校。

再舉個例子：

早上出門，你問老婆，今天冷嗎？

老婆告訴你，今天挺冷的。

這就是老婆的觀點。

你看了手機，顯示氣溫20度。

這就是事實，準(zhǔn)確的數(shù)字。

這時候你如果，說我覺得不冷啊，那就是你的觀點。

或許就是這樣的幾句話，你們會爭吵一番。

在現(xiàn)如今的網(wǎng)絡(luò)環(huán)境中，有非常多觀點僅僅是來自事實的片段+99% 的揣測。

萬州公交車慘案，一開始只是看到被公交車碰撞使得車頭與車流方向相反的紅色轎車，

有人說“女司機果然是馬路殺手”，

你如果不同意他的觀點，你可以不搭理他。

但是如果你搭理他了，別說“我真的為你的無知感到羞恥”，于是你們打了一架。

你可以說“你是怎么確定的？”這就是一種求證、或者證偽的態(tài)度。

他說：“我看到一篇微信文章說的呀?！?/p>

你說：“我真覺得你的判斷力也就這樣了，什么你都信?！庇谑悄銈冇值么蛞患?。

你可以這樣說：“我在微信里看到過不少謠言，比如這個，比如那個，后來都辟謠了。你確定那篇文章一定屬實嗎？”這還是一種求證、或者證偽的態(tài)度?！?/p>

關(guān)于事實，不需要辯論，只需要驗證。

有人說：“我覺得這個女生真漂亮?！?/p>

你問：“你為什么這么認(rèn)為？”

他說：“因為臉小看啊！”這說明，在他的認(rèn)知體系里，臉小就代表女生長的好看。

你問：“為什么臉小，就覺得這個女生長的好看呢？”

他驚訝地看著你說：“難道你不覺得嗎！”

這說明，他是個“地心說”患者，認(rèn)為自己的道理，就是世界運行的公理。

但是，他認(rèn)為“臉小的女生就長的好看”，有錯嗎？

其實沒錯。在他的認(rèn)知體系里，他當(dāng)然可以這么認(rèn)為。

如果你說：“你錯了，這個女生好看不是因為臉小，而是化妝化的好?！?/p>

你們倆是爭不出結(jié)果的，因為你們倆都在自己的觀點里。

而只要你們彼此的認(rèn)知體系不違反基本事實，又能邏輯自洽，也就是能自圓其說，就永遠不會被對方說服。

那職業(yè)化的表述，應(yīng)該是怎樣的呢？

你可以說：“哦，如果是拍照來說，這個女生臉小可能確實是好看的。

如果就現(xiàn)在我對面這個女生，我個人認(rèn)為她的好看是因為化妝。僅供你參考?！?/p>

這句話說完，你發(fā)現(xiàn)，大家立刻就沒什么好辯論的了。

職業(yè)化的基礎(chǔ)，是尊重；

尊重的基礎(chǔ)，是理解；

理解的基礎(chǔ)，是接受不同；

接受不同的基礎(chǔ)，是能夠區(qū)分事實，和觀點。

什么是事實？就是在客觀世界中，可以被證實或者證偽的東西；

什么是觀點？就是在一套認(rèn)知體系中，不違反事實，邏輯自洽，因此無法被證明對錯的東西。

事實有真假，觀點無對錯。

遇到不同觀點時，不要面紅耳赤、割席斷交，而要說：有趣。

事實有真假，觀點無對錯。什么是事實？什么是觀點？相關(guān)圖片：

事實有真假，觀點無對錯。什么是事實？什么是觀點？英文翻譯：

What makes a fact?

In objective world, can be confirmed or the thing of card bogus.

What makes a point of view?

It is namely in a cognitive system, do not disobey a fact, logistic from be in harmony, because this cannot be proved,be opposite bad thing.

After we understood the meaning, we comes illustrate.

Get up in the morning your Mom tells you, your or else rises be about to be late.

This is a viewpoint, mom thinks you wanted to be late.

However to you, your rate is rapid need 20 minutes to be able to be done only decide everything, reach the school on time.

In fact you reached the school on time namely, time at 9 o'clock.

This is a fact, because you reached the school at 9 o'clock.

Cite a case again:

Go out in the morning, you ask wife, cold today?

Wife tells you, quite cold today.

This is the viewpoint of wife.

You saw a mobile phone, indication air temperature 20 degrees.

This is a fact, exact number.

At that time you if, say I feel not cold, that is your viewpoint.

It is a few such words probably, you can quarrel one time.

In showing the network environment nowadays, having very much point of view is the extract that comes from a fact merely + the conjecture of 99% .

Massacre of bus of 10 thousand cities, just see the red car that is collided to make car head and wagon flow way opposite by the bus at the beginning,

Someone says " the chauffeuse is driveway killer as expected " ,

If you do not agree with his viewpoint, you need not respond him.

But if you respond him, never mention it " I feel ashamed for your ignorance really " , then you hit.

Can you say " how affirmatory are you? " this seeks testimony one kind namely, or the manner of card bogus.

He says: "I see text of a small letter says ah. "I see text of a small letter says ah..

You say: "I feel really your eye also such, whats do you believe. " then you must hit again.

Such you are OK saying: "I had seen many rumors in small letter, for instance this, for instance that, refuted a rumor later. Do you decide that article is belonged to certainly solid? " this still seeks testimony one kind, or the manner of card bogus. " this still seeks testimony one kind, or the manner of card bogus..

About the fact, do not need to argue, need test and verify only.

Someone says: "I feel this schoolgirl is really beautiful. "I feel this schoolgirl is really beautiful..

You ask: "You why so think? "You why so think??

He says: "Be looked down upon because of the face! " this explains, in his cognitive system, the face is little what grow on behalf of the schoolgirl is good-looking.

You ask: "Why the face is little, is what feel this schoolgirl is long good-looking? Is what feel this schoolgirl is long good-looking??

He looks at you surprisingly to say: " don't you feel! " don't you feel!!

This explains, he is"The earth's core says " patient, think oneself truth, it is the axiom that the world runs.

But, he thinks " what the woman student with young face grows is good-looking " , wrong?

Actually right. In his cognitive system, he is OK of course so think.

If you say: "You are wrong, this schoolgirl is good-looking because the face is little,not be, make up however those who change is good. Make up however those who change is good..

You two it is not to contend for those who give a result, because of you two it is in oneself viewpoint.

And want each other cognitive system not to disobey basic fact only, can logistic from be in harmony, can justify oneself namely, won't be persuaded by the other side forever.

Of that professionalism state, should be what kind of?

You can say: "Oh, if be to take a picture for, this schoolgirl face is little the likelihood is good-looking really.

If now on me this schoolgirl, my individual thinks her good-looking because make up,be. Consult for you only. Consult for you only..

This word says, you discover, everybody immediately of good with respect to it doesn't matter controversy.

The foundation of professionalism, it is esteem;

Valued foundation, it is understanding;

The foundation of understanding, it is to accept different;

Accept different base, it is to be able to distinguish fact, with the viewpoint.

What is a fact? It is namely in objective world, can be confirmed or the thing of card bogus;

What is a viewpoint? It is namely in a cognitive system, do not disobey a fact, logistic from be in harmony, because this cannot be proved,be opposite bad thing.

The fact has true and false, the viewpoint does not have pair of faults.

When encountering different point of view, not be flushed, cut banquet to break off a friendship, and should say: Interesting.