1、踏實做事，寬厚做人

十分不耐煩，乃為人大病

一味學(xué)吃虧，是處事良方

處事輕浮，耐不得麻煩，是一個人最大的缺點(diǎn)；為人永遠(yuǎn)抱著吃虧的態(tài)度，就是最好的處事之道。

嫌麻煩，說明心里浮躁，浮躁則淺??；耐住麻煩，踏實下來做事，則就是修煉。人肯吃小虧，終不吃大虧，因為大虧正是不吃小虧累積來的。

One's greatest weakness is to be frivolous and not to be troubled; the best way to deal with things is to always take a losing attitude towards people.

Suspicion of trouble indicates impetuosity in mind, while impetuosity is shallow; enduring trouble and steadfastly doing things is practice. People are willing to suffer a small loss, but they will not suffer a big loss, because it is the accumulation of a big loss that does not suffer a small loss.

2、私心是毒藥，忍耐是素質(zhì)

欲利己，便是害己

肯下人，終能上人

想要對自己有利，往往反而害了自己。能夠屈居人下而無怨言，終有一天也能居于人上。

自私之人從來不受歡迎，路會越走越窄。能甘居人下，是具備忍耐之性，懂得等待時機(jī)，這是成大事者的必備素質(zhì)。

If you want to be good for yourself, you often do yourself a disservice. To be able to submit to others without complaints, one day will also be able to live above others.

Selfish people are never welcome and the road gets narrower and narrower. Being willing to live in the world is patient and knows how to wait for the right time. This is the essential quality of a person who can accomplish great things.

3、忠厚是第一人品，勤儉為最高家道

處世以忠厚人為法

傳家得勤儉意便佳

在社會上為人處事，應(yīng)當(dāng)以忠厚的人為效法對象；傳于后代的只要能得勤勞和儉樸之意，便是最好的了。

近朱者赤，近墨者黑。交朋友也會相互影響。

In dealing with people in society, we should follow the example of loyal people; as long as the meaning of diligence and frugality can be handed down to future generations, it is the best.

Near Zhu is red, near Mo is black. Making friends also affects each other.

4、做人最忌寬己嚴(yán)人，做事最怕剛愎自用

但責(zé)己，不責(zé)人

此遠(yuǎn)怨之道也

但信己，不信人

此取敗之由也

只責(zé)備自己，不責(zé)備他人，這是遠(yuǎn)離怨恨的最好辦法。只相信自己，不相信他人，這是做事情失敗的主要原因。

責(zé)己不責(zé)人，內(nèi)則提升素養(yǎng)，外則不惹沖突，自己能成長，別人也不怨恨。

It's the best way to stay away from resentment to blame only yourself and not others. Believing only in yourself and not in others is the main reason why things fail.

To blame oneself without blaming others is to improve one's accomplishment in the interior, but not to cause conflicts in the exterior. One can grow up without resentment from others.

5、為人處世，莫過于老老實實

打算精明，自謂得計

然敗祖父之家聲者，必此人也

樸實渾厚，初無甚奇

然培子孫之元?dú)庹?，必此人?/p>

凡事都斤斤計較、毫不吃虧的人，自以為很成功，但是敗壞祖宗良好名聲的，必定是這種人。誠實儉樸而又敦厚待人的人，剛開始雖然不見他有什么特別的表現(xiàn)，然而使子孫能夠有一種純厚之氣、歷久不衰的，必定是這種人。

人品有問題，也是一種敗家。厚道積德，福能澤及子孫。

He who cares about everything and never loses money thinks he is very successful, but he must be the one who ruins the good reputation of his ancestors. Honest, frugal and generous people, although at first he did not see any special performance, but so that future generations can have a pure spirit, enduring, it must be such a person.

Personality problems are also a kind of loser. Good morality, good fortune and future generations.

6、志高才能品高，踏實才能成事

志不可不高，志不高

則同流合污，無足有為矣

心不可太大，心太大

則舍近圖遠(yuǎn)，難期有成矣

一個人的志氣不能不高，如果志氣不高，就容易為不良的環(huán)境所影響，不可能有什么大作為。一個人的野心不可太大，如果野心太大，那么便會舍棄切近可行的事，而去追逐遙遠(yuǎn)不可達(dá)的目標(biāo)，于是很難有什么成就。

志氣是一種氣象和眼光，然而心態(tài)不踏實就會淪為虛妄。

A person's ambition can not be low, if ambition is not high, it is easy to be affected by the adverse environment, it is impossible to make any great achievements. One's ambition should not be too great. If one's ambition is too big, he will abandon the near feasible things and pursue the distant and unreachable goals, so it is difficult to achieve anything.

Ambition is a kind of Meteorology and vision, but if one's mind is not solid, it will become illusory.

7、處世兩要：敬別人，靠自己

敬他人，即是敬自己

靠自己，勝于靠他人

敬別人，就是敬自己；依靠自己，勝過依靠別人。

敬別人，別人也會敬你，受益的終歸是自己?？縿e人，人人都更看重自己，終歸靠不住。

To respect others is to respect oneself; to rely on oneself is better than to rely on others.

Respect others, others will respect you, the ultimate benefit is their own. Depending on others, everyone attaches more importance to himself, and ultimately can not be trusted.

8、為人忌清高，居心宜正直

和平處事，勿矯俗以為高

正直居心，勿設(shè)機(jī)以為智

為人處世要心平氣和，不要故意違背習(xí)俗，自命清高；平日存心要公正剛直，不設(shè)計機(jī)巧，自認(rèn)為聰明。

入鄉(xiāng)隨俗，和光同塵，這是心里裝著別人，并與人為善。心機(jī)巧詐，一回兩回或許能騙過別人，時間久了誰都看得出來。

Be calm in your life, don't deliberately violate customs and pretend to be noble; mean to be impartial and upright on weekdays, don't design cleverly and think you are smart.

When in Rome, do as the Romans do, and share the same light and dust, this is to pretend others in heart and to be kind to others. With ingenuity, you may be able to cheat others twice a time, as anyone can see over a long period of time.

9、君子之道

和氣迎人，平情應(yīng)物

抗心希古，藏器待時

以祥和的態(tài)度去和人交往，以平等的心態(tài)去應(yīng)對事物。以古人的高尚心志自相期許，收斂自己的才能以等待可用的時機(jī)。

君子藏器于身，待時而動。這個“器”，是才能、本事，也是器度、器量。

Communicate with people in a peaceful manner and deal with things in an equal manner. With the noble aspirations of the ancients, we hope to restrain our abilities so as to wait for the available time.

Gentlemen hide their wares in their bodies and move around. This "instrument" is not only talent and ability, but also measure and measure.

10、給人留余地，自己守良心

求個良心管我

留些余地處人

守住自己的良心以約束自己，與人相處多給別人留些余地。

良心和余地，是永遠(yuǎn)不嫌多的兩樣?xùn)|西。

Keep your conscience to restrain yourself, and give others more room to get along with others.

Conscience and margin are two things that are never too many.

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