有關(guān)中國(guó)男人的十個(gè)有趣事實(shí)是什么？



 

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William Regan, I've been living in China for seven years.
Answered Jun 15
Having a boy in China is called “Construction Bank” “建設(shè)銀行” while having a girl is referred to as “Merchant’s Bank” “招商銀行”. This is because men are expected to have good jobs, stable salaries, a house, and a car in order to be prospective husbands. (So Chinese parents joke that having a male costs much more money.)
The disparity between a man with a rich family and a man with a poor family is massive. The former can afford to loaf a bit — and his family will eventually provide him with the ways and means to find a suitable wife. The latter will have to struggle to earn money, provide for his parents, and also prove to be an attractive prospect for marriage.
Most Chinese men seem to favor long-term courtship approaches, while their Western counterparts might be a bit more rash. Many of them seem to slow play their interactions with girls — chatting with them on WeChat, taking them to dinner, and overall courting them for a longer period of time.
I’ll have to revisit this topic at another time. That’s all I’ve got for now.

在中國(guó)的，男孩叫建設(shè)銀行，女孩交招商銀行。因?yàn)槟腥说糜泻霉ぷ?，高收入，穩(wěn)定工資，房子，車(chē)子，這才是理想的丈夫人選。（所以中國(guó)父母開(kāi)玩笑說(shuō)生男孩更花錢(qián)。）
生在富人家庭和生在窮人家庭，這對(duì)男人來(lái)說(shuō)差別巨大。生在富人家生活無(wú)憂(yōu)，找老婆不用愁。而生在窮人家你只能拼命賺錢(qián)，還得贍養(yǎng)父母，還得證明自己是結(jié)婚的好人選。
大部分中國(guó)男人喜歡長(zhǎng)期的求愛(ài)方式，而西方男人就有點(diǎn)輕率冒進(jìn)了。很多中國(guó)男人都會(huì)和女孩慢慢的交流——微信上聊天，請(qǐng)吃飯，總體上進(jìn)行長(zhǎng)期的追求。
我暫時(shí)就想到這么多了，有想到更多的話(huà)再來(lái)補(bǔ)充。

[copy]Jianguo Shi
Answered Jun 15 · Upvoted by Xinchun Li, lives in China
Chinese masculinity means man doing as much housework as possible and let their wives/girl friends enjoy more pleasure of life.
Chinese men would let their wives be the treasurers of their family, and hand in all their wages to their wives, or just give their pay card to them. Meanwhile, they only get a pitiful amount of pocket money from their wives.
Chinese men listens to their wives’ instructions and take their orders. The significant other is like an empress at home.
When their wives or girlfriends have their period, Chinese men would take care of their partners particularly meticulously, which means no cold water to drink or touch, nor household chores. They would make hot ginger drink or hot soup for them, amuse them and tolerate their grumbles.
Chinese men aren’t habituated to say out loud “I Love You”, but they do say Love You deep down. In their mind, love is in acts not in words.
Chinese men like making life-long friends. Even though they probably have never meet each other in decades, as long as they think they are still friends, they would do whatever to help the friend. If the husband’s friend is in financial difficulty, the poor husband would beg their wives for some money to help their friends. Certainly a wise wife must know how to maintain her man’s dignity.
Chinese men usually show their filial piety to their parents, so a man can be the punchbag both for his wife and his mother, when the two empresses have conflicts.
Chinese men particularly care about their face and reputation. They follow Confucian teachings and try to be benevolent, righteous, courteous, wise, and trustworthy.
Chinese men would make great sacrifices for the family and delight in his contributions to the clan. They would save money for his children’s education rather than squander it on cool flashy toys for themselves.
Chinese men don’t like preening themselves every day; they only do this on special occasions. Hair spray, styling gel, cologne are not the necessities in most men’s washrooms; people tend to think these are only for fashion followers or metrosexual men, though seemingly more young men use them.

中國(guó)男人意味著男人做一樣多的家務(wù)，讓自己的妻子/女朋友更好的享受生活樂(lè)趣
中國(guó)男人會(huì)將財(cái)政大權(quán)交給自己的妻子，將所有的工資上交老婆，或者直接把工資卡交給老婆。同時(shí)，他們從老婆那里獲得可憐的零花錢(qián)。
中國(guó)男人聽(tīng)從老婆的指令和命令。他們的老婆就像家里的女皇。
當(dāng)妻子或者女朋友來(lái)大姨媽時(shí)，中國(guó)男人會(huì)非常細(xì)致的照顧她們，意味著不喝冷水和接觸冷水，也不用做家務(wù)。他們會(huì)做熱姜茶和熱湯，讓她們開(kāi)心并且容忍她們的抱怨。
中國(guó)男人不習(xí)慣大聲說(shuō)“我愛(ài)你”，但是他們的內(nèi)心深處確實(shí)會(huì)說(shuō)愛(ài)你。他們覺(jué)得愛(ài)在于行動(dòng)而非語(yǔ)言。
中國(guó)男人喜歡交一生的朋友。盡管雙方可能幾十年都沒(méi)見(jiàn)面了，但是只要他們覺(jué)得你依然是朋友，就會(huì)盡全力幫助你。如果丈夫的朋友經(jīng)濟(jì)困難，可憐的丈夫會(huì)祈求妻子給點(diǎn)錢(qián)幫朋友。當(dāng)然，明智的妻子肯定要懂得如何維護(hù)自己丈夫的尊嚴(yán)。
中國(guó)男人通常很孝順，所以當(dāng)妻子和老媽之間有矛盾時(shí)容易成為出氣筒。
中國(guó)男人特別關(guān)心自己的面子和聲譽(yù)。他們追隨儒家教導(dǎo)，盡力做到仁善，正義，謙恭，智慧和可信。
中國(guó)男人會(huì)為自己的家庭做出巨大的犧牲，樂(lè)于為自己的家族做貢獻(xiàn)。他們會(huì)為了孩子的教育而省錢(qián)，而不是亂花錢(qián)。
中國(guó)男人不喜歡天天整理自己，他們只有在特殊場(chǎng)合下才好好打理自己。發(fā)膠，啫喱水，香水都不是大部分男人的必需品；人們通常會(huì)覺(jué)得這些東西都是時(shí)尚追隨者或者都市美男用的，盡管越來(lái)越多年輕人在使用。[/copy]

Jenna Meera
Updated Jun 22
They are gentlemen in actions more than words.
In general, they are much more conscious in “saving face” than Western men. *Edited. Credit: Peter
They have to drink extensively for business purpose.
They have to get real drunk or fake drunk for business purposes.
Most them takes relationship very seriously. Men who are having “casual relationship” or “uncommitted relationship” are most likely to be regarded as playboys and philanderers. Unacceptable.
Some of them treat their wives like empresses.
Some of them make their wives treat them like emperors.
Don't expect a Chinese father to say he loves you frequently. As stated in point 1, he does it in action.
They are very devoted to family, willing to do anything for them, by that I mean sacrifice holidays, every penny they've earned, relaxation hours, personal times at a level that westerners rarely reach.
They are human being like the rest of the world population. They care about loved ones and focus on making a better life; sometimes the way to interpret is slightly different.

他們是行動(dòng)上的紳士而不會(huì)花言巧語(yǔ)。
比西方男人更在意面子。
他們?yōu)榱松獠坏貌淮罅康娘嬀啤?br>他們?yōu)榱松獠坏貌缓茸砘蛘呒傺b喝醉。
他們大部分都認(rèn)真對(duì)待感情。如果擁有“隨便的男女關(guān)系”或者“未承諾的男女關(guān)系”就非?？赡鼙划?dāng)作花花公子或者被認(rèn)為是玩弄女性。無(wú)法接受。
中國(guó)的一些男人待自己的妻子如女皇。
中國(guó)的一些男人要求自己的妻子像皇帝那樣服侍自己。
不要期望中國(guó)父親經(jīng)常說(shuō)愛(ài)你。正如第一點(diǎn)所表明的，他會(huì)用行動(dòng)來(lái)表達(dá)愛(ài)意。
他們非常關(guān)注家庭，愿意為家人做任何事情，即犧牲自己的假期，自己所賺的每一分錢(qián)，休息的時(shí)間，個(gè)人的時(shí)間，西方人難以企及。
他們和我們一樣都是人。他們關(guān)心愛(ài)人，致力于創(chuàng)造更好的生活；有時(shí)候表達(dá)的方式有點(diǎn)不一樣。

Marek Cieslik
Answered Jun 15
1. Usually less body hair than nationalities, if any at all.
2. Straight black hair.
3. Black eyes.
4. Tend to be more ectomorphic & mesomorphic than endomorphic.
5. Far less likely to have body piercings or tattoos than other nationalities. 
6. More likely to be lactose intolerant than nationalities.
7. Usually have a lower resistance to alcohol than nationalities.
8. They're far less likely to be obese than other nationalities. 
9. As a result of strong social & family pressure they're more likely to be conformists & hold quite traditional values.
10. They're usually shorter than other nationalities.

1、體毛更少，甚至沒(méi)有
2、黑直的頭發(fā)
3、黑色的眼睛
4、更加清瘦
5、更少的刺穿和紋身
6、更加容易患有乳糖不耐癥
7、對(duì)酒的抵抗力更低
8、更不容易肥胖
9、由于巨大的社會(huì)和家庭壓力，他們更有可能成為墨守成規(guī)者并堅(jiān)持傳統(tǒng)價(jià)值觀(guān)。
10、相對(duì)更矮。