生活這么大，你，明白了什么

      I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts. I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes, after that, you'd better know something.

      我明白人無法強迫別人愛自己。我們所能做的就是成為那個被愛的人。剩下的取決于他人。我知道無論我多么在乎，也不會得到同樣的回報。我明白多年來建立起的信任在幾秒鐘內(nèi)就可以毀于一旦。我明白在生活擁有什么并不重要，重要的是擁有誰。我明白靠魅力最多可以蒙混十五分鐘，之后你最好學到點什么。

      I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do. I've learned that it's not what happens to people, it's what they do about it. I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you'll see them. I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

      我明白人不該拿自己和別人所能做到的最好相比，而是和自己所能做到的最好相比。我明白重要的不是人們遇到了什么事，而是人們?nèi)绾螒?yīng)對它。我明白不管你把它切得多薄，它總會有兩面。我明白應(yīng)該對自己所愛的人說一些深情的話，因為那可能是彼此的最后一面。我明白在你認為自己不行后，還能繼續(xù)向前走很遠。

      I've learned that heoros are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that there are people, who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

      我明白英雄是那些在需要時刻義無反顧地去做必須做的事情的人。我明白有人深愛著你卻不知道如何表達。我明白有時候我是有權(quán)利生氣的，但我沒有權(quán)利變得冷酷。

      I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, sometimes you have to learn to firgive yourself. I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

      我明白即使再好的朋友偶爾也會傷害你，你必須原諒他們。我明白只有別人的原諒是不夠的，我們必須學會原諒自己。我明白不管有多么傷心，世界也不會因為你的痛苦而停止。我明白兩個人爭吵并不意味著他們不愛對方，而兩個人不爭吵也不意味著他們就彼此相愛。

      I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life. I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours when a firend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

      我明白有時你必須先下手為強。我明白有時你不得不先發(fā)制人。我明白兩個兒即使看同一個東西，看到的也會截然不同。我明白不管結(jié)果如何，只有坦誠的人才會在生活中走得更遠。我明白在朋友向你抱怨時，生活會在瞬間發(fā)生改變，你會盡力幫助他。

      I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains. I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe. I've learned to love and be loved. I've learned.

      我明白寫作和交談一樣，可以緩解情感的傷痛。我明白生命中最在乎的人離去太快。我明白很難界定向善和不傷害他人感情以及支持你的信仰之間的界限。我明白了愛與被愛之間的含義。我明白了。