一、余生很貴，請別浪費，如果連眼前的生活都不好好珍惜，又有什么資格談余生，余生又能好到什么程度呢？時光啊，就請你慢點兒走吧，留住我們的美好時光，也留住我們的青蔥歲月。

the rest of your life is very precious. Please don't waste it. If you don't cherish the life in front of you, what qualifications do you have to talk about the rest of your life and to what extent will it be better for the rest of your life? Time, please go slowly, keep our good time, also keep our green years.

二、因為你太過于熱情，所以總覺得別人對你都太冷漠；因為你太愛一個人，所以別人一個疏忽你都覺得那是不愛你了。多把精力放在自己身上，你會減少很多矯情的情緒。

because you are too enthusiastic, you always feel that others are too indifferent to you; because you love a person too much, so a negligence of others, you feel that it is not love you. Focus more on yourself, you will reduce a lot of emotional affectation.

三、人生的道路上，我們需要一些“彎路”，因為“彎路”是砥礪人才鋒芒的硎石，是催人奮進(jìn)的精神力量。有時候覺得自己像個神經(jīng)病。既糾結(jié)了自己，又打擾了別人。

on the road of life, we need some "detours", because "detours" are the stone to sharpen the talent's edge and the spiritual force to inspire people to forge ahead. Sometimes I feel like a neurosis. It entangled itself and disturbed others.

四、 年紀(jì)大了，自尊心也跟著一起長大，有眼淚也不能輕易流，就得讓它倒回去，于是啊，心里慢慢有了一片海洋。

as we get older, our self-esteem grows up with us. We can't easily shed tears, so we have to let it go back. So, there is an ocean in our heart.

五、 你要相信，總有一個人是在等你的。不管經(jīng)歷多少風(fēng)浪苦痛，他都在等你。你們相遇，就會知道從前的傷都是為了讓你如今更好的跟他在一起。

Believe that there will always be someone waiting for you. No matter how many storms and pains he has experienced, he is waiting for you. When you meet, you will know that the old wounds were all for you to be better with him now.

六、即使看不到陽光，我也相信有太陽；即使自己很孤獨，我也相信世間有愛；即使自己很無助，我也相信有上帝。我料定了你會走，只是沒想到那么快，所謂的心理準(zhǔn)備還是不攻而破，看來，我們還是輸給了時間。

Even if I can't see the sun, I believe in the sun; even if I'm lonely, I believe in love; even if I'm helpless, I believe in God. I anticipated you would go, but I didn't expect so fast, so-called psychological preparation or not to attack and break, it seems that we still lost time.

七、成長過程中最大的挑戰(zhàn)在于，有些路段，只能你一個人寂靜地走；有些辛酸，只有我一個人無奈地嘗。人生苦短，但愿有人，能給我一世縱容。 難過以后需要增加的是免疫力，而不是一邊痛苦，一邊非要作踐你自己。

The greatest challenge in the process of growth is that in some sections, you can only walk alone; in some bitter sections, only I can feel helplessly. Life is short, I hope someone can give me a life of indulgence. What you need to increase after you are sad is your immunity, not your pain, but your practice.

八、真實的生活是，認(rèn)真做好每一天你分內(nèi)的事情。不索取目前與你無關(guān)的愛與遠(yuǎn)景。不糾纏于多余情緒和評斷。不妄想，不在其中自我沉醉。不傷害，不與自己和他人為敵。不表演，也不相信他人的表演。

the real life is to earnestly do your part every day. Don't ask for love and vision that are not related to you at present. Don't dwell on superfluous emotions and judgments. No delusion, no self-indulgence. No harm, no enemy to oneself and others. No performance, no trust in other people's performance.

九、努力，不是為了要感動誰，也不是要做給哪個人看，而是要讓自己隨時有能力跳出自己厭惡的圈子，并擁有選擇的權(quán)利，用自己喜歡的方式過一生。

Efforts are not meant to impress or show anyone, but to enable oneself to jump out of the circle of disgust at any time, and to have the right to choose and live a life in the way one likes.

十、人生禍福相依，笑淚交織，得到不必太喜，你擁有一些，必然會放棄另一些；失去的無須過悲，沒有什么可以永久地停留。不要以事業(yè)的成敗、收入的多寡來定義人生的幸福，它們只是一種附庸，與幸福的內(nèi)涵沒有必然的聯(lián)系。只要凡事抱以平常心，不抱怨，不嫉恨，不懈怠，不冷漠，幸福才有所依附。

Life is interdependent with misfortune and happiness, laughter and tears are intertwined, you don't need to be too happy to get. If you have some, you will give up others. If you lose something, you don't need to be too sad. Nothing can stay forever. Don't define the happiness of life by the success or failure of career and the amount of income.

They are only appendages and have no inevitable connection with the connotation of happiness. Happiness can only be relied on if everything is carried out with an ordinary mind, without complaint, without jealousy, with unremitting idleness and indifference.

十一、沒有一個人天生就懂得愛，都是需要慢慢的去經(jīng)歷去感受，從懵懂到心跳，從想觸碰到擁抱，從點點滴滴愛的萌芽開始，慢慢的靠近喜歡的人，然后，慢慢的走進(jìn)對方的心底。

No one is born to know love. They all need to experience it slowly, from ignorance to heartbeat, from wanting to touch hugs, from the germination of love bit by bit, slowly approaching the person they like, and then slowly entering the other person's heart.

十二、沉默，可以讓混亂的心，變得清澈。不用告訴別人，你有多愚蠢，多天真，多善良，多無奈，多幸運，多倒霉，多痛苦，學(xué)會用沉默去掩飾自己的情感。也許有人說你灑脫，但灑脫有時候只是一種假象，我們需要一個理由，凈覺浮躁的身心。沉默，是睿智，是內(nèi)涵；沉默，是最后的清高，也是最后的自由。

Silence can make the chaotic heart clear. Don't tell others how foolish, naive, kind, helpless, lucky, unlucky and painful you are. Learn to hide your feelings with silence.

Maybe some people say that you are free and easy, but free and easy sometimes is just a kind of illusion, we need a reason, pure feeling impetuous body and mind. Silence is wisdom and connotation; silence is the ultimate nobility and freedom.

十三、 不要沮喪，不必驚慌，做努力爬的蝸?；驁猿诛w的笨鳥，我們試著長大，一路跌跌撞撞，然后遍體鱗傷。堅持著，總有一天，你會站在最亮的地方，活成自己曾經(jīng)渴望的模樣。

Don't be depressed, don't panic, try to climb snails or foolish birds, we try to grow up, stumble all the way, and then bruise all over. Hold on, one day, you will stand in the brightest place and live like you once longed for.

十四、成長的道路上你可能會遇見很多人。有人嫌棄你的體重，有人介意的容貌，有人害怕你的無理取鬧，有人受不了你的脾氣，有人嫉妒你太優(yōu)秀也有人看清你不把你當(dāng)回事兒。盡管如此，總有一個人正在接受并習(xí)慣著你的這些，他沒走，一直都沒走。

You may meet many people on your way to growth. Some people dislike your weight, some people care about your appearance, some people are afraid of your unreasonable trouble, some people can't stand your temper, some people envy you are too good, others see that you do not take you seriously.

Nevertheless, there is always someone who is accepting and accustomed to you. He has not gone, has not gone.

十五、瘋過，傻過，執(zhí)著過，堅持過，愛過，可到最后還是一個人過。才知道，不是我的，當(dāng)初我就不該要。大概，每個學(xué)不會分手的人，都會遇到一個不能在一起的人，放手舍不得，堅持又太累，愛而不得時最煎熬。

crazy, silly, persistent, persistent, loved, but in the end, or a person. Only then did I know that it wasn't mine. I shouldn't have wanted it at the beginning. Probably, everyone who can't learn to break up will encounter a person who can't be together, let go, persist too tired, love can not be the most painful.

十六、你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求別人守信，你可以要求自己對人好，但不能期待人家對你好。你怎樣對人，并不代表人家就會怎樣對你，如果看不透這一點，你只會徒添不必要的煩惱。

You can ask yourself to be trustworthy, but you can't ask others to be trustworthy. You can ask yourself to be good to others, but you can't expect others to be good to you. How you treat people doesn't mean how they treat you. If you can't see through this, you just add unnecessary worries.

十七、我們改變不了宿命，也改變不了結(jié)局，有時候苦苦的執(zhí)著，是一種心累，心累了，心疼了，再也念不起，再也愛不起，學(xué)會了放下。曾經(jīng)心碎，曾經(jīng)在夢里無數(shù)次夢到你，醒來，是一個清冷的黎明，往事只能回憶，無論是快樂和痛苦，都是人生的一種經(jīng)歷，就像我愛過你，擁有過那些美麗的記憶已經(jīng)足夠。

We can not change our fate, nor can we change the outcome. Sometimes painful persistence is a kind of tired heart, tired heart, heartache, can not remember, can not love, learn to put down.

Once heartbroken, have dreamed of you countless times in the dream, wake up, is a cold dawn, the past can only recall, whether happy and painful, is a life experience, just like I loved you, have those beautiful memories is enough.

十八、成功的人生不在于成就了多大的事業(yè)而重在做好了什么，所以，見到茂密的森林，你只要無愧地做其中挺拔的一棵；見到奔騰的長江，你只盼無愧地做浪花里晶瑩的一滴；雖是一棵，卻能抗擊風(fēng)雨，雖是一滴，卻能滋潤禾苗。這樣的人生也就夠了。

Successful life does not lie in what you have accomplished, but what you have done well. So, when you see the dense forest, you just need to be one of the upright ones; when you see the Pentium Yangtze River, you just want to be a glittering drop in the waves;

although it is a tree, it can resist the wind and rain, although it is a drop, it can nourish the seedlings. Such a life is enough.